• Tales of a Sexless Second Year: Abstinence? A Good Thing?

    Tales of a Sexless Second Year: Abstinence? A Good Thing?

    The thing is, if I have sex with a guy and he doesn’t immediately fall in love with me, I’m annoyed. If I have sex with a guy and he does immediately fall in love with me, I’m annoyed. Tell me how I am meant to win here? I realised that this was because I… Read more

  • maybe memory is all the home we’re allowed

    maybe memory is all the home we’re allowed

    I remember the first place I moved out to. It was still, serene, as all plodding outskirts of farm properties are. I thought it was apt that I resided next to a cemetery. It was the attractive part, curated with manicured grass and linear rows of granite headstones. At day, you were meant to grieve;… Read more

  • Hoeing: The Therapy No One Talks About

    Hoeing: The Therapy No One Talks About

    “It is still frowned upon for women to have multiple sexual partners – but there are also a plethora of contradictions that come with it.” Read more

  • I Had Vaginismus

    I Had Vaginismus

    It’s hard to notice how many times a day society reminds you of sex’s importance until someone says you might never be able to have it. Read more

  • Another Emotional Woman

    Another Emotional Woman

    The world needs emotional women – but the fear of failure can often hold them back. Read more

  • A Recipe for Anger

    A Recipe for Anger

    One activist recounts her experiences with an insatiable anger against the world, the burnout that followed and why she finally decided to give up. Read more

  • Please select your ethnicity:

    Please select your ethnicity:

    My mouse hovered over White. Then Black. Other? Do you identify as coming from a diverse cultural background: Yes ( ) No ( ) Help. Read more

  • Feminism and the Fitness Industry

    Feminism and the Fitness Industry

    Being a feminist and working in the fitness industry often feels like something of an oxymoron. Read more

  • MyHealth Memories

    MyHealth Memories

    The doctor doesn’t eye me suspiciously before printing the prescriptions like I expected he would; he just flat-out refuses while staring at the screen. He says he wants a letter from my previous GP. How do I explain that I don’t have a GP? How can I detail my thirteen-year career as a consumer of… Read more

  • 18 Months and Counting

    18 Months and Counting

    Instead of looking for strength, what I wish someone had told me is to find a way to be content again and to just do the thing that makes you happy. Strength can wait.   Read more