Sex – Bossy

Memoir July 22, 2022July 22, 2022 by Bossy

Tales of a Sexless Second Year: Abstinence? A Good Thing?

The thing is, if I have sex with a guy and he doesn’t immediately fall in love with me, I’m annoyed. If I have sex with a guy and he does immediately fall in love with me, I’m annoyed. Tell me how I am meant to win here? I realised that this was because I craved the validation of guys telling me: “You’re the only one I can really open up to.” Until I registered the fact that I was only there to make them feel special and solve all their problems.

Hoeing: The Therapy No One Talks About

“It is still frowned upon for women to have multiple sexual partners – but there are also a plethora of contradictions that come with it.”

Opinion Print 2020 July 2, 2021July 2, 2021 by Bossy

The Birds, The Bees, and BDSM

Some wildly juicy stories emerged from the Fifty Shades phenomenon, saucy and embarrassing alike. But what really left me gasping, so to speak, was the lack of education, shared both by the author, E. L James, and my friends, about safe BDSM practices.

Memoir Print 2020 June 18, 2021July 5, 2021 by Anonymous

I Had Vaginismus

It’s hard to notice how many times a day society reminds you of sex’s importance until someone says you might never be able to have it.

Satire November 15, 2018 by Gene Pinter

Area Non-Binary Person Loses Their Shit

In an unprecedented and entirely unpredictable move, a local individual, [REDACTED], has officially lost their goddamn mind when it comes to cis people telling them what’s what. “Look,” they said in an exclusive interview with Bossy, “the next person who tries to tell me my pronouns aren’t grammatically correct is getting a dictionary to the jaw!”

Creative July 9, 2018July 10, 2018 by Holly Jones

The Reframing of Sex

“Every time a man cums in me / He leaves a part of his soul.”

Creative July 2, 2018July 10, 2018 by Anonymous

I Feel You

“I feel you in me / My insides do not twist / like they did when / I felt him …”

Creative January 4, 2018July 9, 2018 by Prisca Ochan

Ingénue

“He taught me how the deranged make love …”

Opinion November 13, 2017July 10, 2018 by Sophie Pezzutto

My Friend: The PhD Grad and Trans Escort

“My research confirmed what my friend had heard from other trans escorts: there is a huge sexual demand for transgender women.”

Opinion October 22, 2017July 10, 2018 by Ruohan Zhao

Sex That (Doesn’t) Matter: Our Discursive Limits on Sex

“I find our status quo definition of sex not only incredibly narrow, exclusive and heterosexual, but also devaluing of other forms of sexual expression and intimacy that comprise the whole experience that is actually sex – foreplay, oral sex and fingering (to name a few).”

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